My husband has been gone for only a couple weeks for his current military training this time around, and everything seems to be falling apart on my shoulders. His unit won't be paying him until the end of the months, which leaves me in a horrible situation with the finances. I'll have to take everything out of the savings in order to scrape by paying the bills this month... nursing school just got a lot worse, we're up to six chapters a week plus a research paper and the clinical paperwork each week also. Working full time on top of school is wearing me down pretty thin, but I'm still alive so it can't be that bad. In other news my blood count continues to drop but it isn't low enough to warrant a transfusion yet, so we'll see what happens with that. but feeling weak and dizzy all the time with this hectic schedule is less than ideal.... the nightmares are back and getting a lot worse, maybe because there's no one to wake me up from them, but I'm getting used to them again so it isn't too bad. Though I wish I could get a little more sleep.... I know I need it. But on a up note I remembered to eat twice today so there's something. I think the worst part of my day is that after talking to my husband for about fifteen minutes I had a complete breakdown, I haven't cried for a long time, and I didn't like it. Always makes me feel pathetic. Then when he called back a little later I was distant and quiet because I was afraid I'd start crying on the phone and make him have to deal with more than he already is over there. He's got enough to worry about. I just feel bad that he probably thinks I'm being cold and distant from him because of this financial stuff and he thinks I'm upset about it and taking it out on him since he's the one not getting paid or something..... I just don't want to drag all of my own problems into all of the stuff he's already trying to figure out... so.... today sucked.....epic fail
.................Unhappy Halloween....
Also, I didn't get to watch the nightmare before christmas today while drinking apple cider....
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